“如果我们之间没有远距离的问题，我们会有可能吗？”
一个心里很想知道答案的问题，不管答案是好的还是不好的，心里还是很想知道吧。
但是这个答案在这个时候应该是没有意义的吧。
也许人与人之间的缘分是注定的，一切让它随缘吧！！！
Thursday, 11 February 2010
Wednesday, 10 February 2010
Dental Surgery...
The other day when I yamcha with YeeVoom at 1U, she reminded me about my dental surgery joke. It happened to me few years ago, it is still funny when think about that.
There was an ucler in mouth which was not cured after few months. Recommended by my regular dentist to the specialist dentist. That specialist dentist even got "Dato" title, sound so professional and famous. But what worried me the most was the price, of course, I am just a poor employee.
The receptionist nurse is a young pretty girl, extra bonus for a guy visiting dental clinic (hehe...). After the dentist looked at my ucler, he said it was not an ucler, it was actually a blocked saliva vessel which maybe caused by accidental bite in my mouth. Then he continued saying :"It has been some time I never met this kind of condition, but the remedy is very easy, just a minor surgery. I can do it now, cost you 300 bucks only." But somehow I felt he was actually grinningly smiling and I could imagine that he might be thinking :"It is funny, long time never do this fun surgery already, today got a 'water fish' here for me to have fun, hehehe..."
Anyway, considering the necessity of the surgery and I needed to pay again the consultation fee if I came back later for the surgery and also I'm a Nike supporter, so I said :"Just do it"
There was another nurse in the surgery room, she is also quite pretty. This old dentist is so ****, only hire pretty nurse. He also called the nurse at the reception to come in to assist this surgery. One of them needed to hold my lower lip all the time because the "ulcer" was behind my lower lip.
The fun part of this surgery was, I could actually see the whole surgery process through the reflection from the dentist glasses. Maybe he might be wondering why I looked at his eyes all the time but actually I was looking at what he did to my "ulcer". It was kind of weird feeling because I could see I was bleeding but I didn't feel of any pain at all (of course it was because of the anaesthesia). And of course the excessive blood in my mouth will disturb the surgical operation, another nurse (the pretty receptionist nurse) was in charge of the sucker and regularly suck the blood out from my mouth upon the order given by the dentist. So, in the whole surgery the dentist kept saying to her :"suck it, suck it". Ok, that was very normal procedure and professional verbal language. But after some time, my mind went to somewhere little bit blueish. I thought of some other meaning of "suck it". My first reaction was to laugh, because I really felt it was a funny scene, a patient held on the dentist chair while the dentist kept asking his nurse to "suck" me. But I couldn't laugh, because my lip was held by another nurse and basically I couldn't move. In the end I chose to close my eyes and pretend being deaf so that I could control myself not to laugh.
Anyway, the surgery went on and been successful. The dentist told me to return to the clinic to remove the thread after one week. But I didn't because all of the thread dropped off before I took dinner that night. He is good in cutting but not in sewing.
There was an ucler in mouth which was not cured after few months. Recommended by my regular dentist to the specialist dentist. That specialist dentist even got "Dato" title, sound so professional and famous. But what worried me the most was the price, of course, I am just a poor employee.
The receptionist nurse is a young pretty girl, extra bonus for a guy visiting dental clinic (hehe...). After the dentist looked at my ucler, he said it was not an ucler, it was actually a blocked saliva vessel which maybe caused by accidental bite in my mouth. Then he continued saying :"It has been some time I never met this kind of condition, but the remedy is very easy, just a minor surgery. I can do it now, cost you 300 bucks only." But somehow I felt he was actually grinningly smiling and I could imagine that he might be thinking :"It is funny, long time never do this fun surgery already, today got a 'water fish' here for me to have fun, hehehe..."
Anyway, considering the necessity of the surgery and I needed to pay again the consultation fee if I came back later for the surgery and also I'm a Nike supporter, so I said :"Just do it"
There was another nurse in the surgery room, she is also quite pretty. This old dentist is so ****, only hire pretty nurse. He also called the nurse at the reception to come in to assist this surgery. One of them needed to hold my lower lip all the time because the "ulcer" was behind my lower lip.
The fun part of this surgery was, I could actually see the whole surgery process through the reflection from the dentist glasses. Maybe he might be wondering why I looked at his eyes all the time but actually I was looking at what he did to my "ulcer". It was kind of weird feeling because I could see I was bleeding but I didn't feel of any pain at all (of course it was because of the anaesthesia). And of course the excessive blood in my mouth will disturb the surgical operation, another nurse (the pretty receptionist nurse) was in charge of the sucker and regularly suck the blood out from my mouth upon the order given by the dentist. So, in the whole surgery the dentist kept saying to her :"suck it, suck it". Ok, that was very normal procedure and professional verbal language. But after some time, my mind went to somewhere little bit blueish. I thought of some other meaning of "suck it". My first reaction was to laugh, because I really felt it was a funny scene, a patient held on the dentist chair while the dentist kept asking his nurse to "suck" me. But I couldn't laugh, because my lip was held by another nurse and basically I couldn't move. In the end I chose to close my eyes and pretend being deaf so that I could control myself not to laugh.
Anyway, the surgery went on and been successful. The dentist told me to return to the clinic to remove the thread after one week. But I didn't because all of the thread dropped off before I took dinner that night. He is good in cutting but not in sewing.
Thursday, 4 February 2010
老朋友难听的真心话...
曾几何时我们一班朋友聚在一起聊心事时（与其说聊心事，不如就直接说是在八卦朋友的秘密），
会毫不留情地把朋友的一些错误的想法直截了当的批评和指责（可能是在借机会用骂人来疏解考试压力）。
虽让有时候被指责的人心头上会有点不服气，但过一阵子后想回来还真的觉得朋友们骂的都是有道理的（都是自己先犯贱，被骂是应该的）。
不是真朋友的还真的懒得理会你的事。
但我们渐渐长大后，面对了真实的世界和现实的社会后，大家待人处世的功力也变得圆滑了。（现在每个朋友都比滑蛋和粉还滑）
聊天时聊到些敏感话题，大家都怕会触到朋友的死穴，自觉性的就会避开那个话题而不去谈论它也不给任何意见。就算有说也只会说好听的话，不好听的话就收起来了。久而久之，朋友就会错了再错，甚至泥足深陷。
想想为什么现在好朋友间都不说难听的真话了？也许觉得大家都长大了，每个人在各自的领域或工作里也有一番小成就，自尊心也随着年龄长大了。不想因为难听的话给说得太重后，朋友的面子挂不住而翻脸的情况发生，不说自然而然成了最好的应对方法。或许朋友会觉得说他自己这些年来也做了很多错事，所以有什么资格去批评别人的事。
其实大家心里都明白什么叫当局者迷，旁观者清。身在事件当中的朋友这时是最需要旁观者清的朋友们的指点，哪怕是难听的话。庆幸还有一位这样的朋友在身边，虽然不常联络，但她却在我处在最迷茫糊涂的状态时及时把我骂醒。也许你不是刻意这么做的，但真朋友就真的会说出难听的真话。我真的在追薇的过程中持过很错误的想法。
谢谢你，把我骂通了，我真的知道现在应该怎么做了。
谢谢你，老朋友难听的真心话！！！
会毫不留情地把朋友的一些错误的想法直截了当的批评和指责（可能是在借机会用骂人来疏解考试压力）。
虽让有时候被指责的人心头上会有点不服气，但过一阵子后想回来还真的觉得朋友们骂的都是有道理的（都是自己先犯贱，被骂是应该的）。
不是真朋友的还真的懒得理会你的事。
但我们渐渐长大后，面对了真实的世界和现实的社会后，大家待人处世的功力也变得圆滑了。（现在每个朋友都比滑蛋和粉还滑）
聊天时聊到些敏感话题，大家都怕会触到朋友的死穴，自觉性的就会避开那个话题而不去谈论它也不给任何意见。就算有说也只会说好听的话，不好听的话就收起来了。久而久之，朋友就会错了再错，甚至泥足深陷。
想想为什么现在好朋友间都不说难听的真话了？也许觉得大家都长大了，每个人在各自的领域或工作里也有一番小成就，自尊心也随着年龄长大了。不想因为难听的话给说得太重后，朋友的面子挂不住而翻脸的情况发生，不说自然而然成了最好的应对方法。或许朋友会觉得说他自己这些年来也做了很多错事，所以有什么资格去批评别人的事。
其实大家心里都明白什么叫当局者迷，旁观者清。身在事件当中的朋友这时是最需要旁观者清的朋友们的指点，哪怕是难听的话。庆幸还有一位这样的朋友在身边，虽然不常联络，但她却在我处在最迷茫糊涂的状态时及时把我骂醒。也许你不是刻意这么做的，但真朋友就真的会说出难听的真话。我真的在追薇的过程中持过很错误的想法。
谢谢你，把我骂通了，我真的知道现在应该怎么做了。
谢谢你，老朋友难听的真心话！！！
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